Rename CodeAction.canAutoApply -> CodeAction.preferred

Part of #62110

Use the more generic name as suggested in https://github.com/Dart-Code/Dart-Code/issues/1393. This makes the intent of the field more clear and also allows us to extend the concept of preferred code actions to refactorings and other classes of code actions

Experimentally also allows a `preferred` value for `apply` when configuring code aciton keyboard shortcuts. This applies the preferred code action returned from the list of code actions returned

extensions/typescript-language-features/src/features/quickFix.ts

@@ -270,7 +270,7 @@ class TypeScriptQuickFixProvider implements vscode.CodeActionProvider {
 			title: ''
 		};
 		if (tsAction.fixName === 'spelling') {
-			codeAction.canAutoApply = true;
+			codeAction.isPreferred = true;
 		}
 		return codeAction;
 	}