* chore: bump node-gyp on windows to 11.2.0
improves reliability of builds on windows
includes https://github.com/nodejs/node-gyp/pull/3113 and https://github.com/nodejs/node-gyp/pull/3112
* use preinstalled node-gyp
* use bundled node-gyp for subdirs too
* chore: revert changes to package-lock.json
* chore: rebuild package-lock.json
* ci: rebuild cache
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Co-authored-by: Aman Karmani <aman@tmm1.net>
