Timeouts for TCP connections to non-responive servers are very long.
This in not appropriate for DNS connections.
Set timeouts for connection setup, sending data and recieving data.
The timeouts for connection setup and sending data are set at 5 seconds.
For recieving the reply this is doubled, to take into account the
time for usptream to actually get the answer.
Thanks to Petr Menšík for pointing out this problem, and finding a better
and more portable solution than the one in place heretofore.
This was the source of a large number of #ifdefs, originally
included for use with old embedded libc versions. I'm
sure no-one wants or needs IPv6-free code these days, so this
is a move towards more maintainable code.
