Avoid foreign key error if message is deleted before saving attachments

ts/sql/Server.ts

@@ -2997,10 +2997,6 @@ function saveMessage(
   } satisfies Omit<MessageTypeUnhydrated, 'json'>;
 
   if (id && !forceSave) {
-    if (normalizeAttachmentData) {
-      saveMessageAttachments(db, message);
-    }
-
     const result = db
       .prepare(
         // UPDATE queries that set the value of a primary key column can be very slow when
@@ -3019,6 +3015,10 @@ function saveMessage(
       return id;
     }
 
+    if (normalizeAttachmentData) {
+      saveMessageAttachments(db, message);
+    }
+
     if (jobToInsert) {
       insertJob(db, jobToInsert);
     }